15. Go to a movie (but don’t actually watch it).
去电影院看电影(但心思并不一定用在电影上)。

Go to a movie together and make-out like love-struck high school teenagers. I wouldn’t advise this if you’re going to see Schindler’s List, but otherwise it’ll be tons of fun!
一起去电影院,打扮成像刚坠入爱河热恋中的高中生。但不建议你看《辛德勒名单》类的电影,其他的电影会乐趣多多的。

16. “How was your day?”
“今天过得怎么样?”

Ask that simple question when your partner gets home from work to show them how much you care.
爱人下班回家简单问候一下,代表你很在意对方。

17. Focus!
专注对方。

Put down the phone, turn off the TV, make eye contact, and say, “What would you like to talk about?” Just because you’re hearing your partner’s words doesn’t mean you’re comprehending them. Taking a brief moment to do this will make them feel loved and important.
放下电话、关掉电视、两人对视,认真地问,“你想谈谈吗?” 因为你只是听到了他TA的话,并不代表你就真正理解TA的话。短短几分钟的专注交谈时间,关键在于这会让对方感受到那种被爱的感觉。

18. Blast from the past.
重温往日情怀。

If you’ve been together for a long time, think about some of the special places you went to in the early days of your relationship and revisit them in the present. I wager you’ll both be flooded by long-forgotten memories when you get there.
如果你们在一起已经很长时间了,考虑去一下恋爱时去过的地方重温一下过去的美好。到了那里你们都会陷入热恋那段美好回忆中。

19. Why so serious?
何必这么严肃认真呢?

Have tickle fights, go to a comedy club, make-out in a photo booth. Life doesn’t have to be so serious all the time, and laughter will help you grow closer to the person you love.
追着挠痒痒,去看喜剧演出,到电话亭打个调情电话。生活不必一味严肃认真的,笑声有助于你和爱人拉近关系。

20. Before you go to work…
上班前……

Tell your partner that you can’t wait to see them when you get back and give them a quick kiss.
上班出门前,对爱人说,等不及下班回家见啦!再亲吻一下对方。

21. Look at the stars.
数星星!

Grab a blanket, a bottle of wine, and the hand of your dearest. Lay under the stars, relax, look at the constellations, have a drink, and talk about life.
带上毯子、拿上瓶酒、和爱人手拉手去数星星。放松地躺在草地上,仰望星空中的星座,和爱人喝着酒谈着人生。

22. Take up a hobby.
培养一种爱好。

Dance class? Crafting? Gardening? Acting? A new language? Pick your pleasure. Figure out a hobby both you and your partner would enjoy and pursue it together to strengthen your relationship.
参加舞蹈班?手工艺班?园艺班?表演班?语言班?找自己感兴趣的事儿来做。找你和爱人一起都享受和追求的爱好来增进关系。

23. Ride a ferris wheel.
坐摩天轮!体验一下!

And don’t forget to get some cotton candy when you’re done!
坐摩天轮的时候,别忘了吃着棉花糖。

24. Dress up.
精心打扮一下。

Remember how when you were first dating and you spent hours agonizing over what you should wear? I’m not saying you have to take it to that extent, but some people do tend to let their style go downhill if they get too comfortable in a relationship. Turn the tables by dressing up as if it is your very first date together and you want to be certain you WOW them as much as possible.
还记得你们初次约会时,你用了多长时间打扮自己,绞尽脑汁地想自己到底该穿什么衣服。并不是说你打扮成初次约会时的样子,但有些情侣在进入稳定的关系后,就开始不注重自己的穿衣打扮了。一改常态就像初次约会一样精心打扮一下,给对方焕然一新的感觉。

25. Schedule a “play” date.
抽出一天时间,尽情“玩”上一天。

Have kids? It might be tough the find the time for intimacy, so plan to get a sitter one-day-per-week so you can have some alone time with your partner. Go out on a date and then come home, where the real fun begins. I know scheduling might not sound sexy in theory but it is in practice, and believe me, there’s nothing like a little anticipation to spice up your love life.
有孩子?二人很难有亲密时间,找保姆照看孩子,一周抽出一天和爱人单独相处的时间。出去一天再回家,这样才会感受到好戏刚开头而已。我知道理想很丰满现实很骨干的道理,但要相信,爱情生活中的小小期待是最美妙的。

26. Have a friendly competition.
打一场友谊赛。

Bowling, putt-putt, darts, pool, or even the Nintendo Wii all apply. Make a bet with your partner: the loser gives a full body massage to the winner.
保龄球、乒乓球、飞镖、游泳、抑或任天堂Wii什么都可以。和你的爱人打个赌:输家给赢家做全身按摩。

27. Surprise your love with a thoughtful gift.
给爱人精心挑选一个礼物。

I’m not talking about the obvious occasions like birthdays, anniversaries, Valentine’s, and so on — and I’m not suggesting you need to empty your bank account either. But surprise your partner with a little gift that will be meaningful for them when they least expect it if you want to brighten their day!
不建议在生日、纪念日、情人节等等的节日场合,也不建议你花光银行存款买个多么贵重的礼物。但要给爱人买个小礼物制造一个惊喜还是有意义的,他们对这一天也是很期望的!

28. Hold hands and go on a stroll.
手拉手出去散散步。

Enjoy each other’s presence in silence and be happy that you have such a special person in your life.
手拉手享受一下静静地散步的感受,这个很特别的人出现在你的生活中,让你过得无比幸福。