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当家长无法应付孩子的无理要求时，也会发生溺爱孩子的现象。。。

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Spoiling a child also happens when parents are unable to stand up to their children's unreasonable demands. Such parents fluctuate between saying no and giving in - but neither response seems satisfactory to them. If they refuse a request, they immediately feel a wave of regret for having been so strict or ungenerous. If they give in, they feel regret and resentment over having been too easy. This kind of variability not only loosens the parents' ability to set limits, it also sours the parent-child relationship to some degree, robbing parents and their children of some of the happiness and mutual respect that is present in healthy families.
当家长无法应付孩子的无理要求时，也会发生溺爱孩子的现象。这样的父母会在拒绝和让步之间动摇不定──但是好像哪种办法都不能使他们满意。如果他们拒绝孩子的请求，他们会因为对孩子太严格或太不慷慨而立即感到后悔。如果他们让步了，也会因为太容易让步而感到懊悔和自责。这样的摇摆不定不但削弱了父母管教孩子的能力，同时也在某种程度上使父母与子女之间的关系变味，从而使家长和子女间失去了存在于健康家庭中的某些幸福和相互尊重。