No.3 - She gets physical when arguing.

排名第三：一吵架她就动手。

Couples fight. The minor disagreement has turned into a major shouting match. If you don't walk away, punches could be thrown. While you'd never hit a woman, your partner has cocked back and let one loose on you on more than one occasion.

两个人从小吵变成大闹，她就开始要动手了。因为我决不能对女孩子动手，就变成被动挨打……

沪江小编：老虎伍兹的事件告诉我们，家暴不仅仅是男生对女生实施的。姑娘们，如果你真的爱这个男人还是手下留情吧！（如果不是真爱、他又真是个贱人……你就当我什么都没说过）

No.2 - She threatens to hurt/kill herself.

排名第二：她威胁会伤害或杀死自己。

She is on to the fact that you aren’t happy and might be looking for a way out. She realizes that only drastic measures will keep you around. She starts making crazy statements in the middle of arguments, like,“If you leave, I’d probably kill myself” and other threats of bodily harm. Is she serious? You don’t really want to test her but you can’t keep up like this.

当她意识到我已经不再爱她、要和她分手的时候，她就会像疯了一样威胁我：“如果你离开，我就自杀！” 或是做其他伤害自己的行为。我当然不能看着她这样，但我也不能因此就不和她分手……

沪江小编：女人，只有爱自己才会有人爱。当感情逝去，至少要优雅地放手。如此歇斯底里，只会逼对方逃得更快，还会在他心里留下最坏的印象。

No.1 - She won't let you break up with her.

排名第一：死也不分手！

It's not going well. The relationship is a nightmare. It's time to pull the plug. Only problem: She won't let you. You've tried countless times, but she doesn't get the hint. She won't let you break up with her and every time you think she has understood the hint, she is back in your house, hanging with your mom and showing up at your work to go to lunch.

两人关系不好，想分手。但女友无论如何就是不同意。不管我说了多少次，她都不接招。依旧要求跟我约会、往我家里跑、跟我母亲出游、或是到我公司跟我吃午饭……

沪江小编：对于这样死缠烂打的人也实在没话说。男生们，只能劝你们一开始就擦亮眼睛了！