No.10 - She knows things about you that you haven't told her.

排名第十：知道那些我都没告诉过她的事儿

Especially in the early stages of a relationship, men keep secrets: ex-girlfriends, yearly income and the amount of hair that is real (and fake) on their thinning domes. It will all be revealed in due time, but for now this is personal information.

特别是在两个人刚刚开始的时候，男人都有秘密：前女友啦、年收入啦，还有自己头上究竟有几根真发（或假发）？这些秘密到时候男人都会慢慢说出来，不过没到时候时，它们都还属于私人信息。

沪江小编：女人的好奇心似乎总是在男友身上无限泛滥。不过尽管两人关系亲密，也要记得给对方留一点空间才是！

No.9 - She introduces herself to your family & friends behind your back.

排名第九：背着我去认识我的亲人和朋友。

You've hesitated to introduce her to your friends and family because the relationship is new or you just might not be sure it's something that is going to the next level. Suddenly, your mom is asking questions about her and your friends want to know when she is coming out for drinks. She has found a way to skip your introductions and connect with the people in your life behind your back.

两人刚开始交往、男生会犹豫要不要把女友介绍给自己的亲友。“因为我确实还不太确定我们的关系是否会有进展。” 而突然，全世界似乎都认识了我的女友。原来她背着我、先把自己介绍给了我的亲朋好友！

沪江小编：也许你需要通过进入他的圈子来更了解他、或是确立自己的地位。但完全不征求对方同意就这么做确实有点太过分了！

No.8 - She responds to messages on your behalf.

排名第八：用我的名义去回复我收到的信息。

The obligations never end. If it’s not an out-of-town wedding this weekend, it’s a birthday party for a friend you haven’t said a word to in months. You’ll RSVP on your own time and on your own terms -- unless she has already made the calls and penciled in everything on your social calendar. She has become your social secretary, making sure to respond to every invitation with a “plus-one.”

“不经我的同意，就帮我答复了邀请我的婚礼、或是一个朋友的生日派对。仿佛她是我的生活秘书，我的事情都由她来做主。”

沪江小编：男生最怕被“控制”的感觉。记住，你是他的女友、可不是他妈！


No.7 - She has all your passwords without you having given them to her.

排名第七：在我没告诉过她的情况下、知道所有我的密码

There is something odd going on: You have e-mails in your deleted items folder that you don’t remember reading, phone messages from friends that aren't making it onto your voicemail and text messages are disappearing off your cell phone. The only explanation is that your girlfriend has figured out your passwords.

奇怪的事情发生了：我根本没读过的邮件出现在“已删除”邮箱里、朋友给我的电话留言或短信我都接不到……那这种时候只有一个解释：我的女友知道了我的密码……

沪江小编：人人都有隐私，不管这个人是你的男友、甚至是丈夫。不要老是像监视犯人那样监视自己的爱人，你是不相信他、还是不相信自己？