概述: 承认自己的错误,说说你从他们身上学到了什么。。。 Hints: 无 PS:一处连字符
Admit your own mistakes and talk about what you are learning from them. Showing self-acceptance and tolerance for imperfection is very encouraging to teenagers as well as other people around you and tends to make you easier to approach with questions, regrets and challenges. Apologize when you think you had done or said something differently, like losing your cool or saying something hurtful during an argument. Enjoy them. The humor, energy and sense of possibility teenagers often have can awaken parents to positive sides of themselves they had forgotten or neglected. When teens experience being liked, they usually act more likeable.
承认自己的错误,说说你从他们身上学到了什么。表现出自我接受和对不完美的容忍能很好地鼓励青少年以及你身边的其他人,也往往能让他们更容易接近你,向你提出问题、表达遗憾甚至对你提出挑战。当你认为自己做错了事或说错了话,比如发了脾气或争论时说了令人伤心的话,就道歉。 有欣赏之心。青少年常有幽默感,充满活力,看什么事都觉得可能,这些能使父母意识到自己身上已被忘记或忽略的好的方面。当十多岁的孩子体验到被人爱时,他们通常表现得更可爱。