I'm a nice guy. Why can't I meet a nice girl and fall in love?
我是个好男人，为什么我碰不上好女孩来谈恋爱呢？

获得338好评的答案@Marie Stein

Brace yourself. I'm not nice.
勇敢面对这个事实吧：我并不是那么好。

You say you're a nice guy. You want to know how come you can't meet a nice girl and fall in love.Stop kidding yourself. And stop whining. There is no such thing as a "nice guy". And if there was, you're not it.
你说你是个好男人，你想知道为什么自己遇不上好女孩然后爱上她。不要再骗自己了，不要在发牢骚了，这世上并没有什么“好男人”，就算有，也不是你。

For one thing, nice guys don't whine about being nice guys and being overlooked. They're too nice to ever consider blaming others for their own poor luck-to-date, and too nice to ever be such a condescending egoist as to think that women don't know what's good for them and prefer bad boy.
首先，好男人是不会因为自己是个好男人却被无视而大发牢骚。他们人很好，所以他们是不会因为自己恋爱运不顺而抱怨别人，他们也不是那种故作谦逊的自我主义者，觉得女人们根本不知道对她们来说什么才是有用的，认为她们更喜欢坏男孩。

获得305好评的答案@Claire J. Vannette

You are misunderstanding your lack of dating success. You seem to attribute it to your kindness. That's just silly. Kindness is an attractive quality. However, it's not the only attractive quality, and it may not be the most attractive quality. For women who are mature and who respect themselves, kindness is the bare minimum. You might as well say "I have a pulse. Why can't I find a girlfriend?"
你误解了你约会失败的原因。你把它归咎于你的“好”，这很蠢。“好”是一种有吸引力的特质，但是，那并不是唯一能吸引人的特质，而且也不是最吸引人的特质。对于那些成熟且自重的女人来说，“好”是最不吸引人的。你还不如问“我是个活人，为什么我找不到女朋友？”

获得62好评的答案@Ipalibo Da-Wariboko

One of the things about most "nice guys" is that they use their "niceness" as an excuse. As in: because I am nice, a girl should want to date me. Wrong! Niceness is in large supply; there is nothing special about it.
那些所谓的“好男人”有个特点就是把自己的“好”作为借口。就像在说：因为我很好，是个女孩都想跟我约会。大错特错！这种“好男人”多得是，有什么好稀奇的。