To grow, to discover. A love relationship is the garden, in which we plant, cultivate and harvest the most valuable crops, our own self and in which our spouse is provided with the same rich soil in which to bloom. We cannot obtain what we want unless our partner also gets what he or she wants. A woman may, for example, want to go to the cinema. Her husband might dislike the film. But spending a few hours with his wife can bring joy to his wife. That's a very small price to pay for joy, isn't it?