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But defeat is a dead loss unless you do face it without humiliation, analyze it and learn why you have failed. Defeat, in other words, can help make up for the damage it causes. Not only does defeat prepare us for success, but it can arouse our compelling desire to succeed. If you let a baby grasp a rod and try to pull it away, he will cling more and more tightly until his whole weight is suspended.
但是，除非你不觉得丢人并且分析失败、从中学习，否则失败是绝对的损失。换句话说，失败可以弥补他所带来的破坏。不仅仅因为失败为我们的成功做准备，他更能激发我们对成功的迫切希望。如果你让一个婴儿抓着一根枝条，然后从他手里往外拉，他会抓的越来越紧，直到整个身体都被拉起来。 ——译文来自: sunjc2008121