概述: 想想有哪几次你确切知道你给人留下了好印象。。。 Hints: 无 PS:文中两处连字符
I've helped them make persuasive presentations, answer unfriendly questions, communicate more effectively. The secret has always been you are the message. Others will want to be with you and help you if you use your good qualities. They include: physical appearance, energy, rate of speech, pitch and tone of voice, gestures, expression through the eyes, and the ability to hold the interest of others. Others form an impression about you based on these. Think of times when you know you made a good impression. What made you successful? You were committed to what you were talking about and so absorbed in the moment you lost all self-consciousness. Be yourself. Many how-to books advise you to stride into a room and impress others with your qualities.
我帮助他们,使他们所作的演讲有说服力,教他们如何回答不友好的提问,以及如何与人更有效地沟通。而所有这一切的秘诀都在于要懂得你本人就是信息。 如果你能利用你的优点,别人就会愿意跟你在一起,并且愿意帮助你。这些优点包括:外表、活力、语速、语音语调、手势、眼神,以及使他人对你保持兴趣的能力。别人对你的印象就是根据这些因素形成的。 想想有哪几次你确切知道你给人留下了好印象。你成功的原因又是什么? 那是因为你对你所谈论的事情非常投入,你当时完全沉浸其中,以至于完全没有了羞涩的感觉。 保持自我。许多指导性的书籍会建议你大步走进一个房间,用你的优点给别人留下深刻印象。