It's hard for me to show kindness to people that hate me. I'm not that evolved.
对那些讨厌我的人好，对我来说太难了。我思想境界没那么高。——《吸血鬼日记》第一季16集

With her own take on "Haters gonna hate," Caroline demonstrated a surprising level of self-awareness. Giving the cold shoulder might not be the most "evolved" thing to do, but simply put: there are some relationships that can never be fixed. Why bother repeatedly demeaning yourself in hopes of a happy ending that will never come? Just cut your losses and move on.
Caroline对于“讨厌你的人就是讨厌你”的理解惊人的深刻。冷淡对待对不喜欢你的人虽然不是最好的方式，但是也很明显的表明了自己的态度：这段关系是没法修补的了。没必要对没可能发生的结果充满希望，受折磨的只会是你自己。遇到这种情况，就该放下该放下的，继续你的人生吧。