华中师范大学武汉传媒学院播音主持专业大二女生余丹丹这两天将摘抄的《新婚姻法》“夫妻双方房产分配规则”张贴于桌前，宣告从此每天对着这张“励志纸”发奋苦学。现在余丹丹正在准备考四级，每天坚持背20个单词，还要完成一篇英语阅读等等，她表示，自己也会有想偷懒的时候，但一抬头看看自己手绘的“新婚姻法”和那些激励自己的话，就有动力了，比如昨天同寝室女生结伴出去逛街，她心里也痒痒的，但一抬头看到这张《婚姻法》，她又有坐下来学习的动力了。“女孩子靠自己比什么都强！”

“以后不能靠老公，女人想活得有底气，只能靠自己！”余丹丹说，新《婚姻法》中这两条的修改，能抑制一些女生物质至上的扭曲爱情观。她制作这张“励志纸”，就是为了时刻提醒自己：只有增强自身实力，努力奋斗打拼才能自立自强，才能在婚姻中找到安全感。“女生可以自己挣钱、自己买房，谁说买房就是男生的事？”

【沪江小编】“三八”妇女节之际看到这样的新闻是不是特别的振奋呢？挣钱养家、独立自主早已经不是男人的专项了。巾帼不让须眉，女子能顶半边天也不只是嘴巴上说说的了。越来越多的女孩子愿意为了自己的为了奋斗打拼，小编觉得不只是因为《新婚姻法》的出台，更是女孩子们都有了勇气和底气。祝所有的女同胞们节日快乐！

【新闻关键词】

新婚姻法：the new Marriage Law

“新婚姻法”自一出台就引发了各界的热烈讨论，最高法院全文公布的《关于适用若干问题的解释(三)》(征求意见稿)，21个条文涵盖了房子、孩子、票子、“小三”等若干婚姻新问题的处理。

“How can the new Marriage Law be this harsh towards women? The male chauvinism is too serious!” Netizen Chen Di expressed her view through her microblog, and the number of netizens who shared her opinion were not the minority, with many female netizens believing “this sweeps aside the last obstacle against men being unfaithful” and “will cause the divorce rate to go up”.
“新婚姻法怎么对女的这么刻薄?大男子主义太严重了!”网友陈狄通过微博表达了自己的看法，与之持相同意见的网友不占少数，不少女网友认为“这为男人出轨扫清了最后的障碍”、“会造成离婚率上升”。

In comparison to the swelling voices of condemnation, some supporting viewpoints believe the new Marriage Law strongly combats the phenomenon of “deceiving someone into marriage” [for their assets], and at the same time also gives the young men of ordinary families a chance to compete with the “wealthy second generation” [children of rich parents].
较之此起彼伏的声讨声音，一些支持的观点认为新婚姻法强烈打击了“骗婚”的现象，同时也给普通家庭的男青年与富二代竞争的机会。

There were also female netizens who expressed that the new Marriage Law lets women see clearly that “men are unreliable, one can only rely on oneself”, and “Women of the new age definitely should be able to buy houses by themselves, buy cars by themselves, and become more and more independent and strong.
也有女网友表示新婚姻法让女性看清“男的不可靠，只有自己才是可靠的”，“新时代的女性就应该是自个儿买得起房，开得起车，越来越独立自强。”

励志格言：motivational quotes

其实除了摘抄“新婚姻法”如此霸气的励志法外，我们也可以选择一些励志格言来给自己提提醒~

The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience.
生命的意义在于尽情生活，拼命体验，勇往直前无所畏惧地去追求更崭新更丰富的人生经历。

You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.
你比你想象中更勇敢，比你看起来更强大，也比你以为的更聪明。

You always have two choices when you wake up: wake up & sleep again & continue dreaming; wake up & stand up & make your dreams come true.
当你每天醒来的时候都有两个选择：1、醒来，再睡，继续未完的美梦；2、醒来，站起来，去实现自己的梦想。

life is like a roller coaster, it has its ups and downs. But it's your choice to scream or enjoy the ride.
人生就像是坐过山车，总归有起起落落。你可以选择恐惧尖叫，也可以选择享受过程。

Face the past with the least regrets, face the present with the least waste and face the future with the most dreams.
不悔恨过去；不荒废现在；充满梦想，面对未来。

We all have moments of desperation. But if we can face them head on, that's when we find out just how strong we really are.
我们都有绝望的时候，只有在勇敢面对时，我们才知道自己有多坚强。