A survey posted by Otome Suguren, a blog about love and relationships in Japan, revealed the top ten things that Japanese boyfriends wish their girlfriends would stop doing. The top three could apply to boyfriends anywhere:

最近，由日本大受欢迎的两性博客Otome Suguren发起的一项调查显示，日本男生有以下几项最不喜欢自己女友做的事儿。排名前三项的，几乎所有被调查的男生都有提到：


1. "Accusing me of cheating when I'm not;"

1. 没理由地说我背着她搞三搞四！（沪江小编按：看来日本男生自尊心还挺强。不过也难怪，被人冤枉总是不好受的。所以姑娘们，我们也不能那么敏感，还是要多多相信自己的男友哦！）

 
2. "Talking too much about former boyfriends;"

2. 讲太多前男友的事。（沪江小编按：恩~被拿来比较当然不舒服啦。女孩子们，男生们要面子，我们也要给足啊！）

 
3. "Unpredictable mood swings."

3. 情绪变化太大。（沪江小编按：前一秒还开开心心的，后一秒就阴晴不定。男生那么粗心大意，怎么能注意到我们生气的原因。哎，就原谅他们吧。）

But a few certainly seem unique, or at least evocative, of gender relations in the Land of the Rising Sun. Take number six, for example: "Glancing at her cell phone while we're on a date." It's hard to imagine this NOT happening in a city as plugged-in as Tokyo.

除了排名前三公认的讨人厌的行为以外，还有一些个别的例子也是不受男生欢迎的哦。比如第六位的“在跟我约会的时候不停瞄手机”——哎呀呀，这又是嫉妒心理作祟。女生也有私人生活，就不能和朋友发发短信吗？


And number eight: "Demanding I find the same things 'kawaii' (cute) as she does." It may not be uniquely Japanese, but it sure seems like a natural fit in the nation that gave birth to Hello Kitty.

还有第八位的“要我喜欢她也喜欢的可爱东西”——亚洲的女生都是可爱派路线的啊，更别说hello kitty的诞生地日本了！男生们，这个要求可就太过分了啊！

（特别感谢网友nannanloves对本文翻译的纠正，如果你也有对翻译的见解，我们欢迎讨论！）