辩论无赢家,为啥呢?
You can't win an argument. You can't because if you lose it, you lose it; and if you win it, you lose it. Why? Well, suppose you triumph over the other man and shoot his argument full of holes and prove that he is non compos mentis. Then what? You will feel fine. But what about him? You have made him feel inferior. You have hurt his pride. He will resent your triumph.
你不能赢得一场争论。 你不能,是因为如果你输了那就是输了;如果你赢了,你也输了。为啥乜?好吧,假设你赢了你的对手, 把他打的落花流水、体无完肤,证明他神志不清。然后乜?你感觉很HIGH。但是他呢?你让他感到自卑。你摧毁了他的骄傲。他将对你的胜利感到愤怒。 ——译文来自: rover12