They say the key to being a writer, is figuring out who you are，finding your voice.
I wasn't sure where the city would take me，but I couldn't wait to find out. It was the beginning of my Manhattan love story.
Maybe because it's too painful to even imagine. But in a way, the pain of love is what truely changes us.
Those losses are perhaps our first steps into adulthood. Life gets more complicated. But it's also filled with promise, and the possibility of opening your heart to new beginnings.
Who I was, who I wanted to be. Finding my voice wasn't gonna be easy.
Doing the right thing is hard. Maybe because lying is often easier than the truth. And sometime it actually gets you want. But some point, like pinocchio
's nose， the lies just keep growing , until it's hard to tell what's real and what's not.
One thing I knew was sure was that we are pretty lucky to have each other to learn on through all of it.
In reality , nothing is ever as simple as the label we give it. But she made me realize that if I didn't define who I was and what I wanted , somebody else would.
Halloween is a holiday where we put on costumes and try on different versions of ourselves，the princess, the demon
, the bird flying free. It's fun not to be "us" and to not have to face the reality of who we really are and the things that scare us.
No matter what you're going through , it's always better if you have people to share it with.