【影片独白台词】
Hey, good, you got the message.
Loud and clear. So you guys sure look like you're discussing something heavy.
What's up?
To be honest, I was talking about you, and your tendency to be critical,
and how frustrating it is to have me feelings invalidated, whenever I bring up something you don't like.
Renee, sidebar.
Did I or did I not tell you to butt the hell out of my marriage?
What did I do?
I was just finishing my dessert and listening to the guy talk.
"How frustrating it is to have my feelings invalidated"?
That's got your $500-an-hour shrink written all over it.
I was just trying to help.
That's a load of crap.
You need a project, and since you're currently without a house to remodel, you've decided to put the wrecking ball to my marriage.
Oh, please.
This is what you do.
You take other people's lives apart for your own amusement and then you get the fun of putting them back together.
Well, I'm not letting you do it this time.
My marriage is not some guest bathroom in your summer house.
Fine, let's just say that you're right, and I'm a terrible person.
But there's still a man in there who is in pain, and his wife won't listen to him.
That's not my doing.
I think this sidebar is over.

【重点词汇讲解】

1. tendency
n. 倾向，趋势；癖好
常用短语：development tendency发展趋势，产业发展；natural tendency自然趋势，自然倾向；globalized tendency全球化趋势；tendency to sth 趋向；趋于 
词义辨析：trend，tendency，current这些名词均含“趋势，倾向”之意。 
trend指事物发展总的方向、倾向或趋势。
tendency指固有或习得的倾向性，强调没有外来的影响或干扰。
current指向某一方面发展或在确趋向中行动。
例句：There is a tendency to externalize all religions.存在把一切宗教都视为仅具外表形式的倾向
 
2. critical
adj. 鉴定的；[核] 临界的；批评的，爱挑剔的；危险的；决定性的；评论的
短语：critical point 临界点；critical thinking 批判性思维，批判性的思考；critical factor 关键因素；critical value 临界值；critical of 挑剔；对……感到不满，对……表示谴责；critical moment 关键时刻；critical part 主要机件；要害部位；critical period 关键期；临界期 
词义辨析：critical，acute，urgent这些形容词均有“紧急的”或“严重的”之意。
critical指极为危急或缺乏的状况，而这种状况标志一种转折点。
acute通常指需要和缺乏的紧急程度。也指病情的严重。
urgent指情况紧急，急需解决问题。
 
3. invalidate
vt. 使无效；使无价值
短语：invalidate a statute使法规无效；Invalidate By Crossing Out涂除作废；to invalidate a visa废止签证
例句：Yes, we can invalidate that fingerprint.是的，我们可以使指纹无效。
The terms of this agreement are severable. The invalidity of one clause does not invalidate the agreement.
本协议之条款可以分割。本协议任何一款无效不影响整个协议的效力。
 
4. butt
n. 屁股；烟头；笑柄；靶垛；粗大的一端vt. 以头抵撞；碰撞
短语：iron butt厚脸皮；cigar butt雪茄屁股，烟屁股；butt connection对接；端接
例句：In this style of humor, you are the butt of the joke for the amusement of others.在这种幽默中，你充当了娱乐别人的笑柄，玩这种幽默的人常常渴望自己被讨好。
 
5. shrink
shrink在美国俚语中有心理医生、精神科医师的意思。但通常情况下它用作动词或名词，表示“退缩、收缩”：
vi. 收缩；畏缩vt. 使缩小，使收缩n. 收缩
短语：shrink from 退避，在…前面畏缩；shrink into oneself 缩成一团，变得沉默；shrink back往后退
词义辨析：condense，compress，contract，shrink这些动词均含“收缩，压缩”之意。
condense指将东西压缩得更紧密、紧凑，但不失去原有的内容。
compress指把乱而不成形的东西压成一定形状。
contract主要指以内、外部力量进行紧缩，也可用作引申。
shrink侧重指因收缩而达不到原有的长度、体积或容积。
例句：I do not shrink from this responsibility -- I welcome it.我决不在这责任之前退缩；我欢迎它。

【经典句型】

1.  Loud and clear.一清二楚。

2.  What did I do?我又怎么了？

3.  I was just trying to help.我只是想帮忙。

4.  That's a load of crap.这完全是废话。