9 怎样开口

Taking an interest in her life, job or anything else that she likes to talk about is a must for first date conversations. You can do that by asking questions like, “How did your job/hobby/interest start?”
在初次约会的时候，聊聊她的生活、工作之类她乐意聊的话题是必须的。你可以用“你的工作、爱好、兴趣是怎么开始的呀？”作为开头。

8 谈梦想

Contrary to popular opinion, women don’t only want to talk about themselves; they also want to see what’s going on with you. When it comes to dreams, expressing yours will make her gain some interesting insight into you, and she’ll love that you can open up to her.
与大家通常所想的不同，女人在约会的时候不仅仅是想聊聊自己的问题；她们也会想要了解你。不要吝啬于谈谈你的梦想，这会让她对你有更深一层的了解，她会很高兴看到你对她敞开心扉的。

7 不要老是说我朋友怎样怎样

Throwing in a word about your friend and something interesting he said or did will show your date that you have some awesome mates. Just make sure you don’t fall into the trap of going on and on about your friends to the point where you are taking focus away from your date.
跟她聊聊你朋友的事情，或者你朋友说的或者做的好玩的事会让你的约会对象觉得你朋友很多。但是千万不要总跟她聊你朋友的事，这会让她觉得你的注意力都没放在她的身上。

6 多笑笑

The sound of your laughter is always something she wants to hear. It shows her that she has a great sense of humor and you find her delightful. Just try not to overdo it, and always keep it genuine.
初次约会的时候不要介意多笑一笑。这会让她感觉到你觉得她很可爱。但是也不要做得太过，最重要的是要表现出你的真诚。

5 多聊聊经历

Sometimes the best way to get to know someone is through personal anecdotes. So go on and share an experience that stands out as a great memory.
有时候了解一个人的最佳方式就是了解他的一些小趣闻。所以不要害怕跟她分享让你记忆深刻的经历哦。

4 我玩得很高兴

By the end of the first date, both parties need to know if the other had a fun time or not. If you had a good time with her, then tell her. She will really appreciate hearing it.
约会结束时，双方都想知道对方在此次约会中是否开心。如果和她约会很快乐，那么千万不要害怕告诉她哦。听见你这么说她会很高兴的。

3 别忘了为下次约会做铺垫

Of course you don’t know if she had a fun time, but you can set a platform for a future date, mention a great sushi bar or Italian restaurant you’ve dined at recently, and ask her if she’s been there.(plus, it’s an easy way to bring up other topics).
你不知道此次约会她是否满意，不过也别忘了为下一次约会做铺垫，你可以说说你最近去过的某个不错的寿司店或者意大利餐厅，问问她有没有去过那里。（另外这也是开启新话题的不错方式哦~）

2 多谈谈自己的兴趣爱好

It’s good to let her know a bit more about yourself. She’ll love to hear about your interests and hobbies. Divulging information about yourself enables you both to see if you’re on the same wavelength. Plus, she’ll love that you’re offering some info about yourself without her having to ask all the questions.
让她多了解你一些没什么不好。她会很乐意了解你的兴趣爱好。透露一些关于你的信息会让你们互相之间了解某些话题上是否有同感。另外她肯定也愿意看到你主动谈谈自己的事情，而不是所有事情都要她亲口来问。

1 别忘了主动付账

There’s nothing wrong with going Dutch on a first date, but it’s really the gentlemanly thing to pick up the bill for her. When she reaches into her purse, tell her that you have it covered. She’ll be impressed that you took the effort for her and your chivalry will increase your chances of a second date.
初次约会AA制也没什么问题，但是主动为她买单会体现出你绅士的一面。当她准备掏钱的时候告诉她你已经帮她付过帐了。你的行为会给她留下个好印象并增加促成下次约会的可能性哦。

小知识：Dutch在英语中就是指荷兰人。为什么AA制要叫做go Dutch呢？16~17世纪时的荷兰和威尼斯，是海上商品贸易和早期资源共享本主义的发迹之地。因为商人的流动性很强，一个人请别人的客，被请的人说不定这辈子再也碰不到了，为了大家不吃亏，彼此分摊便是最好的选择了。而荷兰人因其精明、凡事都要分清楚，逐渐形成了let's go Dutch（让我们做荷兰人）的俗语。所以大家以后谈到AA制的时候别忘了它的英语表达方式哦~我们一起大声读 go Dutch!!AA制！！