Here is a sure-fire way of getting your kids to do what you want with minimum hassle. Learn how to deal with a naughty kid in public with VideoJug, something many parents find hard to do!

为大家提供一个让孩子听话的最好方法，省去你不必要的麻烦。跟着Videojug学学在公共场合如何应对顽皮的孩子，让众家长不再为此而感到头疼。

Step 1: What Not To Do

举个孩子不听话的例子。

First, here is an example of how not to get your kid to do what you want:

首先，给大家举个孩子不听话的例子：

Daddy: Molly, put your coat on please
莫莉，穿上外套吧。
Molly ignores him
莫莉没理爸爸。
Daddy: Molly if you don't put your coat on you'll get cold
莫莉，你要是不穿外套会冷的。
Molly: No I won't….
不，我不穿。
Daddy: Your mummy gave you that coat for your birthday, and she would want you to put it on.
这件外套是你妈妈送你的生日礼物，她想让你穿上。
Molly: No, actually she gave it to me for Christmas.
不，事实上这是妈妈在圣诞节送我的。

This Daddy is giving different reasons for putting the coat on each time, hoping that one will stick. This is a gift for a contrary kid. She can pick just one flaw in your argument - in this case that the coat was a Christmas, not a birthday present- and start an argument.

这位爸爸每次都在想不同的理由让孩子穿外套，以期其中之一会奏效。这是一个有叛逆心理的小孩儿，她会挑出你话里的任何小毛病-在以上对话中，这件外套是一个圣诞节礼物，而不是一件生日礼物-争论便从这里开始。

Step 2: What To Do

2.如何应对

The less ammunition the kid has, the less they can argue. Instead try this:

不给孩子把柄，让他们没的争论。其实可以试着对孩子这样说：

Daddy: Put you coat on please, it's cold
把外套穿上吧，天冷了。
Molly: No!
不！
Daddy: Please put your coat on
把衣服穿上吧。
Molly: No!
不！
Daddy: Coat on!
把衣服穿上！
Molly: No!
不！
Daddy: Coat!
衣服！
Molly: No!
不！
Daddy: Coat!
衣服！
Molly: Ohhh, Ok…
哦，好吧...

Here, Daddy gave one solid reason, and then stuck to it. Then he used fewer and fewer words until the kid complied. He didn't need to get angry with the kid, just insistent, and there was nothing for her to argue about.

在上段对话中，这位爸爸先给出了一个坚实的理由，然后一直坚持，并且，话越说越简洁，直到孩子顺从。他无须对孩子发飙，贵在坚持，不给她留有争论的余地。

Step 3: Remember to say thank you

3.记得鼓励孩子

Always thank the child for doing what they were asked. Everyone likes to be thanked. If they have been extra specially good, buy them a hot chocolate, or give them a ride on your shoulders.

当孩子按照你的意愿做了什么事之后，别忘了小小奖励一下他们。每个人都乐意接受奖励。如果孩子表现特别好，给他们买杯热巧克力，或者让他们骑在你的肩膀上。