每个人都渴望被人爱，可是当你发现你尽了最大的努力还是无法做到让每个人都喜欢你，会怎么样呢？
Not everybody has to love me or even like me. I don't necessarily like everybody I know, so why should everybody else like me? I enjoy being liked and being loved, but if somebody doesn't like me, I will still be okay and still feel like I am an okay person. I cannot make somebody like me anymore than somebody can get me to like them. I don't need approval all the time. If someone does not approve of me, I will still be okay.
我不需要每个人都爱我，或者，每个人都喜欢我。就像我也没必要去爱所有的人。我知道这点，所以为什么还要强求别人的爱呢？我喜欢被其他人欣赏和爱的感觉，但是如果有人不喜欢我，我也不会觉得很糟。我依然会认为自己是个没什么问题的人。我不能让每个人都喜欢我，就如同别人也不能随意让我去喜欢他们一样。我从不需要别人的肯定。即使别人否定了我，我依然是我的自己。 ——译文来自: pluie_v