作者: 沪江英语 | 2018年02月23日 01:00 | 12 人觉得有用
A person with high EQ doesn't often criticize people.
That's because criticizing usually doesn't solve any problem.
Everybody wants to solve problems. It's just that many people don't know how. And criticizing doesn't change this.
Someone with high EQ knows this well. So they only make criticism when they can provide their solutions.
And they don't merely criticize. They will tell you how to make things better.
A person who does nothing but criticizing is just trying to find himself a sense of superiority .
Someone with high EQ also knows how to see things from other people's perspectives.
It's not only taking care of others' feelings. It's also a means of getting what you want.
Nobody really cares about what you want. And that's why merely asking for things usually won't get you those things.
If you want someone to help you, you should think about what his needs are and figure out how to make him think it's good for him to help you.
Someone with high EQ also knows how to listen to others.
This is not just about manners.
It's a kind of philosophy of living.
One person's mind is inevitably limited in some way. Knowing how to listen to others can broaden your horizon.
A person with high EQ knows this just so well.