4. He won't go out of his way to plan anything special.
4. 他不会不怕麻烦准备任何特别的惊喜

Players are usually seeing a few women at one time, which often means they can't be bothered to devote a lot of energy to any one of them.
花花公子往往同时约会着好几个女人，所以他们不会把大量精力都只放在一个女人身上。

A player will often do what's convenient for him. It's unlikely he's going to surprise you with tickets to that play you've been dying to see, or make any romantic gestures.
他们往往会做自己方便的事情。指望花花公子奉上你期待已久的演出门票给你惊喜？或是其他浪漫举动？想都表想了！

5. He doesn't want to get involved in your life.
5. 他不想融入你的生活

Players want casual relationships. That means they get panic at the idea of meeting parents, or getting involved with your friends,or any activity which makes him feel like he's in a couple.
很随便的关系才是花花公子想要的。所以你如果想让他们见父母、融入你的朋友圈、或是参加任何会让他感到你们是一对儿的活动，花花公子会非常头疼。

Guys who want something serious with you will be interested in becoming a bigger part of your life. On the other hand, players are always planning their exit. They never want too much emotional attachment, because they're scared of feeling guilty when they move on to someone else.
认认真真和你谈恋爱的男人会希望成为你生活中更大的一部分。而花花公子却总在计划怎么撤退。他们从来不想有太多的感情依恋，因为他们不想一旦换了枕边人会心头有愧。

Watch out for these sure signs and you'll have no problems spotting the players early on!
小心这些明确的信号，这样你就能尽早识别出花花公子的真面目了！

So by now you should understand exactly what type of guys are players and who you need to avoid if you want a chance at developing some kind of relationship. Players don't care about your feelings, they just care for themselves, so it's really not worthy our time to try and change them - because they won't change!
好了，现在你应该能准确的判断出什么样的男人是花花公子了，如果你想要发展一段稳定的关系，就知道该避开谁了。花花公子才不在乎你的感受呢，他们只顾自己，所以真的不值得你花时间去尝试改变他们——他们是狗改不了吃屎！